The harrowing issue of veteran suicide casts a long shadow, affecting not only those who have served but also the families and friends who love and support them. Behind the alarming statistics lie the untold stories of grief, guilt, and loss experienced by these individuals. In this article, we explore the profound impact of veteran suicide on families and friends, backed by statistics, and provide guidance on finding support and healing.
The Heartbreaking Reality:
The statistics surrounding veteran suicide are sobering. According to the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (VA), an average of 16.8 veterans died by suicide each day in 2020 and this only represents those who are enrolled in the VA system. This number is not just a statistic; it represents a loved one, a friend, a comrade-in-arms, and a family member. The ripple effect of these tragic losses extends far beyond the individual.
The Toll on Families:
- Grief and Loss: Losing a veteran to suicide leaves families and friends grappling with profound grief and a sense of loss that can be overwhelming. They are left questioning whether they could have done more to prevent it.
- Stigma and Isolation: Families and friends may experience isolation and stigma, often grappling with societal judgments and misconceptions about suicide and mental health.
- Complex Emotions: The grief experienced by those close to a veteran suicide is complex. It may include feelings of anger, guilt, confusion, and sadness, making the grieving process particularly challenging.
Statistics That Speak Volumes:
- Survivor Guilt: A study published in the journal “JAMA Network Open” found that family members bereaved by suicide, including those who lost a veteran, were at a significantly higher risk of suicide themselves, often due to survivor guilt.
- Impact on Children: The impact of veteran suicide on children is profound. The American Academy of Pediatrics reports that children who lose a parent to suicide are at an increased risk of mental health challenges, including depression and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
- Family Support: Family and friend support is essential for veterans at risk of suicide. The VA’s data shows that veterans are more likely to seek help when they have strong connections and social support systems.
Finding Support and Healing:
- Seek Professional Help: If you or someone you know is struggling with the aftermath of veteran suicide, seeking the assistance of a mental health professional is crucial. Therapists, counselors, and support groups can provide the guidance and support needed to navigate the complex emotions.
- Connect with Support Organizations: There are numerous organizations dedicated to helping families and friends affected by veteran suicide. Organizations like TAPS (Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors) and the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention offer resources, support, and a network of individuals who understand your journey. Lady Veterans Connect can help you in contacting these organizations and understanding the resources available to you.
- Community and Peer Support: Sharing your experiences with others who have faced similar losses can be incredibly healing. Participating in support groups or connecting with peers who understand the unique challenges can provide a sense of belonging and validation.
- Education and Awareness: Learning about suicide, mental health, and the unique challenges faced by veterans can help dispel stigma and create a more supportive environment for affected families and friends.
The impact of veteran suicide on families and friends is profound and enduring. It is essential to recognize that those who mourn a veteran lost to suicide are not alone in their grief. There are resources, support, and communities dedicated to helping them heal, find understanding, and rebuild their lives. As we strive to address the issue of veteran suicide, let us also remember and support those left behind, ensuring they receive the care and compassion they need on their journey to healing.
If you have been impacted or know someone who has been impacted by veteran suicide, we invite you to attend our Hope & Healing Conference where we will have resource tables, speakers, and a panel to discuss this topic and work together to come up with solutions.
*This article was written using the assistance of ChatGPT
